Regardless of gender, the following changes occur during puberty:
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The Dutch model explicitly teaches that it is normal to feel confused, attracted to others, or even repulsed by the changes. It encourages teens to identify a "trusted adult" (parent, teacher, doctor, aunt) they can ask awkward questions without fear of punishment.
Puberty typically begins between ages 8 and 13 for girls and ages 9 and 14 for boys. It is driven by hormones—primarily for girls and testosterone for boys—which trigger various developmental milestones. Changes for Everyone Growth Spurts: Rapid increases in height and weight.
A competent young person knows: