To better protect ourselves, we must recognize the specific ways our intuition speaks to us. De Becker identifies several "pre-incident indicators" that predators often use to bypass our defenses: 1. Forced Teaming
The predator's greatest fear is attention. Drop a glass. Scream "FIRE!" (which gets more attention than "help"). Knock things off shelves. Be the worst, loudest, most obnoxious version of yourself. Silence is the predator's partner. The gift of fear- survival signals that protect...
to you to gain trust, rather than a fixed personality trait. Too Many Details To better protect ourselves, we must recognize the